tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8948464446987183317.post5737366628783031954..comments2023-10-05T09:51:46.272-04:00Comments on DelSo: Breaking up is hard to doDelSohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01128537559478176351noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8948464446987183317.post-77358967722194854862011-05-20T13:03:41.275-04:002011-05-20T13:03:41.275-04:00I'm trying to email you but the nycap address ...I'm trying to email you but the nycap address is getting bounced back, with this message:<br />The following recipient(s) cannot be reached:<br /><br /> 'smlilly@nycap.rr.com' on 5/20/2011 1:01 PM<br /> 550 Invalid mailbox: smlilly@nycap.rr.com [R0109006]Claire Zhttp://blog.timesunion.com/vinotecanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8948464446987183317.post-75567184770764222052011-05-20T10:41:47.020-04:002011-05-20T10:41:47.020-04:00I'm a creature of habit and a lover of securit...I'm a creature of habit and a lover of security (whether real or imagined) so I was not the one who ended my very unhappy marriage. That was done for me. In the beginning as I went through all the stages of mourning my marriage, I couldn't see that what my ex husband did in ending the marriage (not how he did it though) was a blessing and a gift to me. Yes, it takes a little creating imagining to think of it as a gift but now I do. Hindsight...<br /><br />Knowing what I know now, I will make different choices in my life going forward. I now see myself as responsible for my happiness and that wasn't clear to me when I was married. Now I know that when a relationship makes me more angry, stressed or sad than happy, it's time for reevaluation. Whether that means and ending or a change can not be said but I will never again sit passively by while things fall apart.Jenniferhttp://sweetlytart.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8948464446987183317.post-35789277604732092712011-05-18T17:44:58.951-04:002011-05-18T17:44:58.951-04:00It's over when your heart tells you it's o...It's over when your heart tells you it's over. It's just the fight against change that we all fear. Once you learn to listen to your heart, follow it, embrace it---then, and only then, will you be ready to begin your new chapter leaving behind the worthless weight of doubt and regret.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8948464446987183317.post-7715929364966257782011-05-18T15:54:52.106-04:002011-05-18T15:54:52.106-04:00How do you know when it's over? For many rela...How do you know when it's over? For many relationships, it's over before we admit it. It's like an airplane with an empty fuel tank. It glides along for a time, but inevitably loses its altitude. Does it crash and burn or does it come back to terra firma softly and allow its passengers to live on? Sorry for the heavy-handed metaphor, but it's a subject on my mind. Great post, delso.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com